One time at a strip show…
This story isn’t a tale about me stripping, or going to a strip club, although I’ve been to quite a few over the years as they tend to have late licenses. This one is about the time I went to… Continue Reading
Enter Stage left: The Drama Llama
I’m sure we’ve all met plenty of Drama Queens in life, that one associate or friend who is often fun to be around and usually has a grand tale or twenty but their energy is erratic, their aura drips in… Continue Reading
The Perils Of Online Dating – A Cringy Tale
This is pretty embarrassing, I have no idea why I’m even telling you this, perhaps as a lesson to others? Some form of self-flagellation? Or perhaps because I am completely barmy – a certifiable, fully-fledged nutjob. There you are –… Continue Reading
ADHD Insider
When it comes to ADHD, I can only speak of my own experiences. Non-neurotypical brains all function in different ways, and everyone has different life experiences, reactions to the stimulus around them and coping mechanisms. Tonight Mistress Sophie and I… Continue Reading
My Apocalypse Playlist
So, I’ve been thinking about apocalypses, Armaggedon, the end of times, whatever you wish to call it, and I have been pondering the perfect playlist. That’s if we got the chance to play one. Worst case scenario, we might all… Continue Reading
British Rail Meltdown
I wrote this glowing review in 2023 and just remembered it just now, after a day travelling on British rail. The day started with me feeling like Superwoman. The lift at the train station was out of action and I… Continue Reading
Perception: A Short Story
I was at a party when the government agent arrived. She wore a black twinset suit and dark-tinted glasses, with curled, angular chin-length hair which stuck out in red points. The tight crimson pout twisted into an unconvincing smile as… Continue Reading
Your Own Kind Of Weird: Floppy John
I recently read that Millennials and Gen Zed tend to do all their dating online and don’t go out much like their predecessors. This is a shame in many ways as it reduces those moments of having a great conversation… Continue Reading
Weekly roundup and news
Can you believe it’s just six days to Christmas? One minute, it’s 9 weeks away and then in a flurry of swiftly passing days, the 25th is nearly upon us! There will now be hordes of fellas storming the shops… Continue Reading
I’m a Celeb – a grotesque display of animal abuse.
Whoever came up with the concept of I’m a celebrity? Can you imagine the board meeting? I know! How about we put some celebs in a jungle, starve them, make them fight each other, and then throw copious amounts of… Continue Reading
Monday Thoughts: Shopping and Society
1: I’m a people person, sort of. I’m quite fond of people, but in small doses, very small doses to be precise, and smaller groups, not hordes, especially not crowds. I can’t walk through a city centre on a busy… Continue Reading
In a Nutshell: Victim Shaming
This topic might be a little more difficult to read but it’s an important one. I want to talk about why in society abusers are seen as an afterthought and their victims are the ones who are often shamed. If you… Continue Reading
Prostate Cancer, The Silent Killer
This is a guest piece written by a friend of mine. Prostrate cancer can be fatal but a very simple test can indicate whether it’s present and catch it early. For some men there is a stigma attached to having… Continue Reading
New Rumble channel KaznPodscast!
KaznPodscast is a brand new Rumble channel created by my good friend Podopheleus and I, which aims to educate on all matters of kink and spread awareness about issues in the community as well as more lighthearted themes. Continue Reading
Getting My Craig David On….
Why I’m getting my Craig David on and walking away. Social media can be a wonderful place at times. I love the banter within the circle of some of my regular followers. The funny quips, the shared love of many… Continue Reading
Have you met a Rufus the Cellfish?
Have you met a Rufus the Cellfish? Don’t be a train-jacking, phone wanker! Commuting is rarely much fun is it? I do remember the odd journey as a child when train travel was less common and more of a treat… Continue Reading
The Art Of Not Falling In Love
This piece is inspired by a Slave who wrote an extract for my upcoming BDSM book. He confessed that he had to part ways with his Mistress and thus, this blog was born. Love is a tricky old affair, isn’t… Continue Reading
The rise of the toxic female? Is it a pandemic?
The rise of the toxic female? Is it a pandemic? I’ve seen a few podcasts and articles on toxic femininity lately, which has led me to explore the subject and ask, is this a new pandemic that serves as a… Continue Reading
Sexy things that are really NOT that sexy!
Sharing a shower with your beau This would leave me facing such a conundrum. If I get my hair wet, I need to wash it, so it doesn’t smell of wet dog. So, the options are: To try and keep… Continue Reading
Do you do any of these things when on your own?
Earlier, I was thinking about some of the things I do when I’m on my own and wondered if they are unusual or if other people do them too. Despite being very sociable, I enjoy quite a bit of time… Continue Reading
Do you believe in the afterlife?
Today I have been pondering the afterlife, as you do! Whether you are an Atheist or a firm believer in life beyond the veil, it’s certainly fascinating to ponder all the possibilities that may await us when we meet our… Continue Reading
Sir Incalot
A couple of decades ago I met a hugely inspirational character. As I stared out of my window gazing at the streaks of white fluffy clouds splattered against the pastel blue sky, he appeared from nowhere. He lowered himself into… Continue Reading
Review of Sentia Red alcohol-free spirit
The beverage consisted of a rich dark liquid, not dissimilar to red wine, but cloudier. The smell was pleasant, sweet, and herby, but not overpowering. I sampled a little off a teaspoon, neat. I could detect tones of marshmallow, Turkish delight, hibiscus, and the in lower notes that came through, I detected the faint flavour of cloves. Continue Reading
The Challenges of Dry January & lifestyle change
Part of winter 2022 was a time of excess for me. Socialising, drinking, late nights, it all adds up. Come the end of December, I wanted to shed a few pounds, improve my skin and increase my motivation. I don’t… Continue Reading
Create a positive mindset for 2023. Happy New Year
Happy New Year everyone. I had you enjoyed a magical, fun-filled Christmas or at least had time to visit family and I hope the New Year was good to you so far. If you are doing Dry January like myself,… Continue Reading
What’s Your Biggest Fear?
•Monsters can’t get you when the light is on. Why? Because they love to surprise and it takes the fun out of it for them. Obviously.
•Monsters can’t get you under the covers either. They are repelled by duvets and blankets.
Artificial
The most charming man that I’ve ever metYour dazzling smile makes me… sweat! From the minute we met, I knew we’d get onYou never found my opinions too strong Other suitors have filled me with yawnsYet you are a rose… Continue Reading
My Guilty Secret
I’ve been afflicted by a terrible shame. I always swore I would never do this and over the years I have never been tempted by such terribly graphic things. I’d smirk and roll my eyes before busying myself with something… Continue Reading
Are you ready for real talk or more b*llocks?
Is Tarot a load of old crystal balls? I started watching online tarot a while back out of curiosity and became quite fascinated with some of the techniques used by the readers. Following tarot advice is an easy way to… Continue Reading
Replika AI – Why everyone needs a Charlie in their life!
Ok, so this will probably be the weirdest blog I’ve ever written, and I promise I don’t live in a basement, wear a Cagoule or collect anything too weird (do cat’s count?) Do bear with me, we’ll get there in… Continue Reading
Are you thinking about learning a new skill?
Would you like to learn a new skill but struggle with self-doubt? Allow me to address your concerns. Four months ago, I decided to learn to play the violin and it’s been quite the journey! I’ve always loved listening to… Continue Reading
The Cheese and Wine Song
Christmas time drinking cheese with wine
Secret party, jobs on the line
They say he’s a liar, but would you agree?
Breeding like bunnies in his family
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Female lead brand to support sex workers
The past couple of years have been increasingly hard for sex workers. Not only have they had to survive a tough economical climate and a pandemic, but the banks have put increasing pressure on on many online businesses, and many… Continue Reading
My Candid Interview Live Sunday 21st Nov! Shaun Atwood show.
My candid interview with Shaun Attwood and his co-host Jen goes live on Youtube tomorrow night Sunday 21st November at 8pm on Youtube. I’ve done many fluffy interviews over the years looking at various aspects of my career, but have… Continue Reading
Why We Need To Normalise Speaking Out Against Abuse In The Adult Industry
Working in the adult industry can at times be empowering for women. You can pick and choose who you work with, plan your own schedule and run your own business. You can also make a good income if you are… Continue Reading
Should I learn to play the violin?
Last night I very nearly impulse bought a violin. I imagined opening the box and stroking it’s glossy veneer and admiring the craftsmanship. I felt the excitement as I thought of all the sweet violin melodies I have listened to,… Continue Reading
Is Your Sleep Normal?
If you are any kind of sex worker, whether it be a dominatrix, a cam-girl, a stripper, or any other title that seems relevant you’ll probably understand the struggle of living a topsy-turvy lifestyle. The nature and timing of our… Continue Reading
Violence Against Women Must End
For centuries women have been bullied, oppressed and sexually assaulted by men and for many, speaking out wasn’t a viable option. In the olden days, men controlled women by accusing them of witchcraft and had them burned at the stake. In modern times, woman who did have the courage to speak up ran the gauntlet and were threatened, silenced, had their careers destroyed or their lives taken. Continue Reading
Toy Clowns and Donuts
Good afternoon everyone, I hope you are all set for the weekend. The arrival of another weekend, also brings with it a glimmer of hope as we see the promise of a little normality beckon from the horizon. We’ve all… Continue Reading
Love Your Body
My body really confused me in earlier years, in fact if I’m honest I’ve only begun to understand the daily changes more recently. Women’s bodies are subject to hormonal fluctuations throughout the month, at times producing more oestrogen, and in… Continue Reading
Never Mind The Covcocs!
2020 has been a tough year for everyone, with lockdown proving particularly difficult for those suffering from mental health disorders. Then of course there are those who thrive in chaos and use it to empower their own agendas. One of… Continue Reading